Friendship between a girl and a boy – .....

.... Mission impossible?   

Not the most original topic in the world – but decided to post it as I am curious of your opinions . Is a real , pure friendship possible between a boy and a girl – or there is always some gender tension between them?

The first answer that comes to my mind – is yes of course that its possible. But then when you think about it – if you spend too much time with someone – especially if she happens to be beautiful and smart girl – won`t you ever think ( if only for a moment ) – that it would be great if you can hold her , or kiss her …

Then again I am not speaking of any girl out there – but of a special one that has a place in your heart . But you are friends – best friends may be – and she is trusting you. Will you betray that trust if you admit that you have feeling for her ?

It has happened to me before – and I made a decision not to admit my feelings ( being a but shy in general – that is not a new thing to me ) . After all if you get together – you know like a couple and something goes wrong – won`t that ruin an otherwise great friendship ?